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To mark World Suicide Prevention Day 2026, we’re launching a new film, What I want you to know.

It tells the story of Phil Wanless and his son Fraser who died in 2021, showing the reality of trauma, relationships, substance use, isolation - and ultimately suicide.

In the film, Phil learns to see what he couldn’t see at the time. Fraser, was the one everyone remembers as the helper, not the one who needed help.

He didn’t know his own words had become something Fraser felt he couldn’t live up to. Living with the trauma of finding his mum dead, challenging relationships, substance use, and isolation, Fraser ended his life.

We follow Phil as he comes to understand what Fraser was carrying, and then turn that understanding outward, making sure other people don’t get missed the same way.

Phil Wanless in front of a photo of his son Fraser

Image: Phil Wanless in front of a photo of his son Fraser.

Before watching the film, it is important to note that it includes strong language and discusses themes of suicide, substance use and trauma. Viewers may find some of the content distressing.
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Support is available

If you, or someone you know, is affected by the themes from this film please know that support is available.

You can also find support in your area on our services directory.

Learning from the film

We've developed a facilitation pack to help people who work in suicide prevention lead meaningful, engaging discussions about the themes raised in the film.

It is designed for facilitated group screenings - community groups, workplaces, and practitioners

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What are you doing?

Tell us what the documentary has inspired you to do that's different or new. Although we appreciate you may wish to share your own personal experiences, this form is to help us understand how people are changing their practice around suicide prevention.


If you are interested in taking part in a future campaign phase, please email our team.

Behind the scenes

Images from the making of What I want you to know

What if - Time Space Compassion

What I want you to know is a film from Suicide Prevention Scotland.

It’s been co-produced by people with lived and living experience of suicide, and follows the principles of Time Space Compassion.

Find local support in your area on our services directory.

View our previous campaign, What if asking about suicide could save a life? here.

Suicide Prevention Scotland